Abstract: The method of generalized modeling in a large scale system was used for reference to construct a generalized model of SoftMan emotional control. The point that behavior is controlled by emotion and intelligence was presented. According to its different functions, the model of SoftMan emotional control was divided by the sense model, the thinking model and the behavior model. Both the relationship between the thinking model and the behavior model and the relationship among the sense model, the thinking model and the behavior model were showed.